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Fear
An emotion that can cripple people and cause inaction. Fear tells us there is something wrong and that we need more preparation. We help you find out how you do your fear, dispel it and free yourself from those restrictions. We start with a free initial consultation, then you fill in a questionnaire that we use to analyse your fear behaviour. Highly recommend a breakthrough session, working together for a morning or a full day, and begin to make changes.
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Anxiety
An emotion of the future. It is common for people to worry about things that might happen. Research has shown that of all the things that we worry only approximatly 10% ever happens. So it is very possible to have the most miserable life in the confort and safety of your own home. Time to change that. Let us help you work this one out, and reprogramme yourself, so that you can make better use of all this mental energy.
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Anger-
An emotion is created when we have expectations of how things will happen or it could be that you expect someone to behave in a certain way. However life has a way of doing it's own thing, and we did not get what we expected and so we get angry. Understanding and learning to communicate better makes a huge shift. Learning to relax, and also be more in control of our world, helps to release one of this very negative and harmful behaviour.
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Smoking-
No one needs to be told that smoking is bad for your health, that it is anti social, it stinks and is a waste of money. You may argue that it relaxes you!! Sorry that is myth. Smoking stresses you and what relaxes you is the releif you get once you have another cigarette. So it helps to build and maintain stress. Good news is that if you have decided to go ahead, all you need is 2 hours and we are done!! We are your catalysts for making the changes and teaching how to maintain them. All you need to is to make a choice and decide when to stop!
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Overweight-
Being overweight is not your fault!! You have learned to override your original program and run another one. Slimming is not about calorie counting and deprevation. Becoming naturally thin is about you being able to listen to your body's needs and work in harmony with it. Learn how to recondition yourself to food. Learn how to consciously eat again, till is a natural behaviour on the unconscious level. Learn to do the way nature intended you to do it. In the process learn to love yourself again and feel happy as a result at the start of your journey.
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Phobia-
A phobia is one of those things that started a long time ago. You probably don't remember what the event was. Either way, it does not matter. You know you have a phobia, when you feel literally frozen. You can not speak the word. You can not move towards "it". It is the way that your brain has taken that first event and in time emphasized it, to the point of total inabillity to move. We can easily solve this for you in a very gentle and funny manner, helping you overcome it in a light and easy fashion.
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Eating Discorders-
Aneroxia is characterised by low body weight and body image distortion. Individuals control body weight through starvation. There is an intense fear of weight gain. Again anxiety driven based on a lack of self love and respect.
With bulimia it is all about having a strong need to be in control. Unfortunatly there is a lack of control over eating, a feeling that one cannot stop eating or control what or how much they are eating. people try to treat the symptom, instead of the reason for the anxiety and emotional pain that drives one to this distructive behaviour. We gently inverstigate the root of the anxiety and rebuild the self love back. Starting with a breakthrough session followed with more sessions to restore self love and respect.
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Depression-
Depression is a lack of positive outlook to life. There is a feeling of sadness, hopelessness and worthlessness. With depression there is also an imbalance of chemicals. We start with a free initial consultation, then you fill in a questionnaire that we use to analyse your behaviour. We make recommendations to help you develop a healthier outlook, and explain how it is that you do this. Highly recommend a breakthrough session, working together for morning or a day, and begin to make changes.
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Self Esteem-
There is a relationship between how succesful we think we should be and the reality we live in. Very often individuals will experience low self esteem issues when are needs are not met. It is also about when respect from others and respect from ourselves is not met. We start with a free initial consultation, then you fill in a questionnaire that we use to analyse your behaviour and how you manifest self esteem issues. Highly recommend a breakthrough sessio, working together for morning or a day, and begin to make changes.
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No Direction-
Often people landed in a proffession when young and later they find themselves in a place where they are not comfortable. At the same time a feeling of being trapped by the daily obligations that need to be met, and fear from moving out of the familiar. A feeling of "where do I go next!!" We start with a free initial consultation, then you fill in a questionnaire that we use to analyse your behaviour and also your dream and goals. Highly recommend a breakthrough sessio, working together for morning or a day, and begin to make changes, followed by coaching sessions to help facilitate you to a new and fullfilling life.
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No Self Love-
Loving ourself is one of the most fundamental emotions that we need. Yet so many of us don't and the result is one of inadequacy, unworthiness which can lead to self destructive path and illness. We start with a free initial consultation, then you fill in a questionnaire that we use to analyse your behaviour. Highly recommend a breakthrough session, working together for morning or a day, and begin to make changes. We would recommend that you follow this up with coaching.
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Relationship Issues-
Communication breakdown is very often at the root of this issue. We do an personnality analysis to both parties, and help you build on your strengths and heal your weakness. Becoming aware of conflict areas and building skill and stategy to manage them sucessfully. We work with each individual seperately then together building a healthy new future.
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Addictive Behaviour-
Addicitions are anxiety based and often one will replace the other. For instance, one may stop smoking and start to over eat. We start with a free initial consultation, then you fill in a questionnaire that we use to analyse your addiction and anxiety based behaviour. Give you skills to combat and gain control back. Highly recommend working together for morning or a day, and begin to make changes. Ideal for stop smoking and weight loss.
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Hate my Job-
This is common. We outgrow our proffession, and feel like we are stagnating. There is no growth and that affects our motivation to carry on. Sometimes it seems difficult to imagine a way to have a new beginning. We start with a free initial consultation, followed by a series of coaching sessions that can be done 1-2-1 or by telephone or a combination of the two. We faciliate your change and help you to find a new carea and move on in life.
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I Feel Lost-
A feeling of what is my purpose, what am I meant to be doing!! A feeling of what is this all about, and is there a reason to why we are living. Feeling lost will affect your motivation to progress and personal growth. We all need a purpose in life and a reason to be here. We need a sense of belonging and a feeling that we are able to contribute. We start with a free initial consultation, then you fill in a questionnaire that we use to analyse your behaviour. Highly recommend a breakthrough session, working together for morning or a day, and begin to make changes and helping you find your true purpose.
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Sexual Dysfunctions-
Often embarrassing and very common. There are a lot of reasons why we are affected in this way. And as long as there is no medical reason as to why things are not working as they should, we can change that. We start with a free initial consultation, then you fill in a questionnaire that we use to analyse your behaviour. Highly recommend a breakthrough sessio, working together for morning or a day, followed by some shorter sessions, and begin to make changes.
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I am Bad at Presentations-
It may be necessary for you to make presentations from time to time in your job. If you feel that you are not making the impact that you would like to, keeping people's attention and being able to put your point across, that will start to stack a lot of bad feeling associated with presenting in the future. I will watch you present and give you a diagnosis. Then I will teach you on a 1-2-1 session how to remedy your mistakes and start to create magical presentations. What ever the issues that you may have, we will deal with them and make this an experience that you will enjoy.
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I lack Confidence-
Confidence is a behaviour and not an identity. Yet so many people make an identity. You will hear people say "I am not confident". They make it their ID! So step 1, separate the myth and show you how you are not your behaviour. Step 2, show you that you are already confident in other areas in your life and so you can transfer that knowledge. You will start to build confidence inside of you and that you will be able to feel straight away, and other too will see the difference. It will feel like there has been magic!!!
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"Freedom is EVERYTHING!... and love is all the rest" Dr Richard Bandler
I believe there comes a time in all of our lives when we look deep
inside ourselves and reflect on what we have achieved, what we want
to change and what we want to do with the rest of our lives. This is
never an easy process, but quite natural.
We live through our 20's discovering who we are, get to our 30's fighting for who we are and start to live life in our 40's when we accept and enjoy who we are. What if this process does not happen? I am here to help. Help you understand how you do what you do. Help you unlock those behaviours and free you from your own prison.
I did this myself years ago
and asked myself the same soul searching questions. What was the result?
I followed my passion of helping people to achieve their potential and
set up the now successful Vixian Coaching Solutions, a training and
personal development company. I believe that within all people there is everything they need to become who they want to be. At times we need a helping hand.
As the company became more and more successful I never lost site of
the individual and my desire to support them in their personal development.
I have spent may years training with leading authorities on change and
personal development such as Paul Mckenna, Dr Richard Bandler, John La Valle, Michael Neil.
How can I help?
I will provide you with the opportunity and environment to talk about
the things that matter and which are important to you. An opportunity
for your personal growth,to re-establish your enthusiasm and self belief,
help find a renewed clarity and confidence in your life, very much like
a mentor. I will provide you with a structure that will help keep you
accountable for achieving your personal objectives.
The chances are that you're visiting this site because you already feel
ready to make changes in your life - to find a greater sense of clarity
about the direction your life is taking. Take that first yet important
step and contact to discuss how I can help you.
How will you benefit?
